Sunday, September 7, 2014

Our Letter to Lydia

We are so thankful to share with you the news of our third child's birth. She was born in good health late Friday night, September 5th, to a healthy mother and happy father. Following the tradition we set with out last child's birth, here is our letter to her, written by her daddy. 


Our dear Lydia Elizabeth,

This morning I planned to teach our church’s Hospitality Team about the way God welcomes strangers into His home. It’s important for a church to reflect the character of God in the way they greet strangers, so I knew we needed a glimpse of God’s wise and glorious hospitality before we rebuilt the team. 

But instead of teaching about hospitality I was at a hospital, doing a different sort of welcome. 

You came last night, through the faith of your mother and the grace of our God. You were easy to welcome, because you were already our own. Your big brother and big sister even came to see you this morning, to hold you for the first time and greet you with a picture Sarah had drawn for you. We have all been waiting a long time to meet you: our Baby Sister.

But God is different. He is as faithful as an oath to His own, yes, but He welcomes even strangers into His home.

That’s why I wanted to be there when the team learned about a woman named Lydia, whose short story teaches us this same thing. She was a stranger to God, born far from the land where God once rested his Name, but she sought to worship Him anyway. Because of the way our sin alienates us from God, it keeps surprising me that He would honor the worship of a stranger. 

But Paul and his companions, all strangers to her, were traveling through Phrygia and Galatia to preach very Good News- through Jesus, God was bringing back those who were far away, to be near Him again. There were other places they were considering taking this message, but God directed them toward Macedonia. Why would he tell them to go one place over another? I don’t know why- that’s what He does. I’m just glad He did. 

When they arrived, many heard them preach. But one is mentioned above the others: Lydia. She has, up to this point, never been mentioned in the Scriptures, nor has anyone she knows been mentioned, nor has the place she is from or the place she is named after been mentioned. She is a complete stranger in this story.

But God brought His messengers to her, and then opened her heart to pay attention to this message. They spoke of Jesus, who had died and risen to bring us back to God and make the Jews and the Gentiles into one kingdom. She trusted this Jesus, and then followed Him in Baptism. Suddenly, a stranger was a part of God’s royal house. Her name’s meaning, “noble,” was becoming more realized. 

Then a funny thing happened. These travelers who had shown her the way home had nowhere to stay themselves. Knowing what it meant to be welcomed as a stranger, Lydia knew what to do. She invited them to stay in her home. The one who had been welcomed into the greatest house in history turned around and welcomed strangers into her own house. 

This is an even greater picture of God’s glory. Not only does He pursue strangers to bring them into His house, He makes them into the sort of people who mirror the same mystery. I wanted to see the faces of our Hospitality Team when that story came alive, to see if it clicked, but I got to see another face instead: my own little Lydia. Sometimes what you get is better than what you ask for. 

Now that you’re here, we hope to mirror toward you the faithfulness God shows to His own. As your mother teaches you to nurse and I remember how to change a newborn sized diaper, we remember God’s heart-melting consistency. He’s even described as an oath, which we remember with your middle name. Elizabeth, very near to the heart of God’s house, knew the meaning of her name, “my God is an oath,” in the way she waited upon her Lord. Her faithful waiting was not in vain- it never is. 

When you want to see a picture of that faithfulness, you can always look to the string of Elizabeths in your family, including your mother. You can hear their stories of the faithfulness God shows us and the faith that waits for it. Now that string has another thread: you. 

Another example you can look to is your Great-Grandma Lynda. Having cared for three husbands on their death beds, one after another, she is one of the few people who have kept three marriage vows all the way to their end. She has been a member of the same small Methodist church for all of my life and more. Over and above that, the kindness she shows to our extended family has a consistency that is hard to rival. You were born on her 76th birthday, and will forever share that birthday and most of your first name with her. I pray you share much more in common with her as you grow.

Lydia’s story is one of unusual welcome; Elizabeth's and Lynda’s are both of unusual faithfulness. May you receive the same welcome into God’s house and the same faithfulness as you explore its rooms, and may you turn to show those same things to everyone God brings your way. 

You are our Lydia Elizabeth Cook. Welcome. 

Your loving parents,
David and Emily Cook

September 6, 2014




Saturday, August 30, 2014

Hiccups!

Baby Sister gets the hiccups regularly. They are fun to watch when wearing a shirt with stripes!

August 1, 2014 at 36 weeks, 4 days


I kind of feel like Santa Clause . . . my belly jiggles like a bowl full of jelly :)
"He had a broad face and a little round belly,
that shook when he laughed, like a bowl full of jelly."

Friday, August 29, 2014

Whale Watch!

Dave and I have long wanted to play the part of tourists since moving to the Cape by going on a whale watch. This summer, we heard that there were more sights than usual and Dave jumped on the opportunity to surprise me. He loves to keep me guessing!

Monday, August 11, was a beautiful morning. A friend had offered to watch to the kids so we could go out for a bit before Baby Sister came (this friend has three kids . . . she knew how to bless us well!) and Dave had talked to her about making it an extended morning. 

The tide was low as we left Barnstable Harbor.
The tip of Sandy Neck from the water.

Another whale watching boat and a spout!

The humpbacks made the icon dives.


This is a fin whale, the second largest animal on the earth (after the blue whale).

Open mouth for feeding time. The boats don't bait the whales in any way, but they do have jets that stir up the rich water that the whales enjoy.

The humpback we watched had a baby with her. (baby on right.) Though it was still nursing, at times the baby practiced open mouth feeding like the mom.





Friday, August 15, 2014

Dave's First Wedding Shoot

Last May, the day before Josiah's birthday, I had a great and fun opportunity: I shot my first wedding. Some friends of ours from the church asked if I would be willing, so I enlisted the help of a friend, borrowed about $2,000 in lenses (there's a reason wedding photography is expensive!), and had a blast.

Jason and I took about 1,650 pictures that day, between the two of us. Here are a few of them.

Father-Daughter Dance

Stephanie's Favorite Part of Her Dress






Stephanie's Bridal Portrait.
Bonus note: this was actually taken inside my office, where I usually have a file cabinet,
because I knew the light would be perfect there just before the wedding started. 

Sunday, August 3, 2014

Baby Sister!

[Originally written in early May :)]

On Tuesday, April 1, we had the joy of seeing our little girl! All four of us went to the ultrasound at the OB office. The tech was kind and quiet, but narrated the whole experience. Praise the Lord, she looks healthy and right on track! We were also excited to find out gender (especially after our last experience at an anatomy ultrasound!) and the ultrasound tech was pretty confident in what she saw.

The kids stayed quiet for Dave and only got a little rowdy once they were over the questions (Sarah) and one word observations (Josiah). They both picked up right away that we had a little girl on our hands. Josiah would say sister, and our little contrarian Sarah would grin and say brother, then ask us to ask her again. She got it :)

In the month since then it has definitely settled in even more. Josiah knows right where baby sister is and Sarah is concerned that she is going to eat through my clothes. It has been really fun to talk about pregnancy with Sarah! Dave and I are working on a name and I had the joy of packing away Sarah's clothes with the knowledge that we will probably get to use them again.

We are already feeling like a family of five. That is a blessing that Baby Sister has already given us. August is coming quickly and we are excited!





Friday, August 1, 2014

Happy 4 years, Sarah!

We had such a fun day/week celebrating Sarah's birthday and remembering back to the day of her birth. She is our kind, delightful, helpful girl. We are so thankful for the four years we have shared with her!

Weight: 40 lbs 13 oz (86%)
Height: 40.25 ins (62%)
Clothes: 4T/5T; shoe, size 9

Likes: swinging (by herself!), chalk, swimming, babies, music (piano, making something a microphone, just having a singing day), special sweet treats, learning to do something herself (like buckle her seatbelt)

Dislikes: blowing out candles, smiling for pictures, loud noises paired with crowds

Schedule: Sarah can read a digital clock now and she has taken real ownership of her routine. She knows that at 7am she may come downstairs. If she wakes up before that she may play or potty, but has to stay upstairs/in her room. While Sarah rarely naps we have preserved a rest time from 1-3pm. She goes down at 1pm and knows that she is to stay in bed. At 2pm she may get up to read or play and at 3pm she may come downstairs once she has made her bed and picked up her room. It is working well for our family!

Eating: Favorite foods are green peppers, pancakes, cheddar, crackers, yogurt, and any fruit. Sarah eats well and is willing to give most things at least a try.

Talking: The nurse practitioner who conducted Sarah's well visit said she felt like she was conversing with a 7 year old. (Proud parent moment :) )Sarah is known for talking with her hands and with an occasional flair for dramatic story telling. She loves to sing, figure things out, and pretend.

Random, but fun:
* She is on track with her gross motor skills, which is refreshing and fun.
* It is so neat to watch her pick up writing skills. We haven't intentionally taught her letters and numbers, but we practice them with her and she in turn can copy anything we have given her to write. Making cards is her favorite way to practice!
* She and Josiah have their rough days, but for the most part they love to play together and interact really well together.
* Sarah is taking swimming lessons at the beach this summer. At first she was nervous about being part of the class, but now she loves her life guard instructors and is feeling confident in the water. She chose to be brave!
* This summer Sarah was also part of her first VBS group. She was a year younger than most children, but kept up with the group really well. It was a joy to hear what "stuck" at the end of each day.

Next appointment: Monday, July 27, 2015 at 10:15am

Back in January she was just learning to write her name.
Valentines party! The best day to wear pick socks with red sparkly shoes.

A preschool carnival at church. She was pretty excited about decorating her cupcake. She gets it honestly :)

Their first time riding together in the car. He didn't know he was missing out on suckers yet . . .

And again in the Target double stroller. This is probably her favorite carriage ride. (Yep, they call buggies carriages up here.)

MOPS St. Patty's Day party.

Little girl loves a project. I am not always super great at giving her projects, so the moment had to be documented!

Yep, she came up with that on her own.

She found a way to keep quiet time in her room during nap time.
Silly girl at her finest.

Decorating Dave's birthday cake.

Before we cut her hair . . . enjoying the view at the National Seashore on Dave's birthday.

She sang with the children for Palm Sunday and loved it.

Our girl who used to scream from the time we entered to the time with exited the doctors' office now loves to play doctor, as well as visit the doctor.

Sweet girl :)

We played tourist in May . . . before the tourists came :)

Everyone loves music time with Dad.

She loved to tell people that her Dad didn't like dandelions and she wasn't allowed to blow them. A sweet friend told her she could blow all she wanted in her yard :)

At the AWANA banquet. One day Dave will probably be glad he was in this picture with the Cubbies, right? Sarah wasn't letting go of his hand!

Girl picture! Standing behind a waterfall in NC.


A rare treat to have everyone together. Plus a very large bear :)

Sweet moments


Swim lessons!

VBS closing

Feeling a little sassy in her "robe" at her four year well visit.

Swim lesson dive stick fun.

Loving Mrs. Lisa time!